Remember when your were young and you couldn't wait to grow up? Heck, I remember when I couldn't wait to drive... nowadays I wish I have a (free) 24 hour Lyft driver. Our younger years is a series of complicated experiences that brings a various mixture of desires, joy and struggles. I often hear people say "If I could go back in time to change everything I did - I would make it better."  Who wouldn't want to have their very own time-traveling Delorean. After writing my DEAR BABY ANT blog, which is a letter to my younger self, it became clear I wanted to address a few other things about life. The very things that I wish I knew when I was younger. Just to be clear, I have no regrets at all. I love my life. Everything I have and lack off is what makes me who I am. Some of the things I will address will sound familiar from my other blogs, so I apologize if I sounds like a broken record. So lets continue...